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Defiance

Understand what's driving power struggles and learn practical ways to increase cooperation.

What This Behavior Looks Like

Defiance may include arguing, refusing directions, ignoring requests, negotiating, or deliberately doing the opposite of what is asked.

Why It Happens

Common reasons include:

    • Need for autonomy
    • Escape from difficult tasks
    • Attention-seeking
    • Skill deficits
    • Emotional overwhelm

Try This Today

Offer structured choices.

Example:
"You may start now or in 5 minutes."

Pro Tip:
Children are more likely to cooperate when they feel some control.

Toolkit Coming Soon

Defiance Decoderâ„¢

Will Include:
✅ Parent Scripts
✅ Choice Boards
✅ Cooperation Plan
✅ Reinforcement Tools
✅ Problem-Solving Worksheets

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